It’s hard to get across a messy floor
covered in all the little shards.
Sometimes the relationship is easier
when things are clearly defined.
In the Dominant/submissive world
there are these hard and soft limits.
Here is an example an example of soft
numbered in no particular order.
These are the easy everyday limits
1. Be goal oriented
2. Ask to speak freely
3. Spend time and attention on your look
4. Call if you’re late
5. Open mindedness
6. Write in your journal
7. Practice patience
8. Careful of the tone
9. I’ll let you know when and where
10. Have a plan
With all that out of the way
We come to the ‘Deal Breakers’
the list of hard limits
come with a much heavier, final price
here is a list of ten
1. Simply be honest. Don’t ever lie
2. Be faithful
3. Avoid arguing
4. Smoking is situational
5. Avoid the silent avoidance
6. Complete the tasks
7. Food etiquette
9. Did I mention, never lie?
10. Always want what’s best
Obviously these lists are negotiated,
always discussed and clearly understood.
Also called a living document
where they can change with time.
Remember these aren’t
a bunch of insecure barking rules
meant for the submissive.
Each side should define their limits
whether they’re hard or soft
it’s important to understand
you get what you give
in this world.
Lastly, always keep things
safe and sane. Good luck
*If you’re interested in learning more about the D/s lifestyle I’ve created a series of 12 lessons for both Dominant and submissive. Let me know and I’ll help.*